WAW does not want to try

[wawpioneer]

I read it mako. Good advice. I think that I understand the mechanics of it a little better now. I am not very good in this whole validation thing. She brought this up in the beginning. She said that her feelings were not being validated and that her opinions did not matter. She could not be the "real her" around me but could when she talked with the other man on the Internet and phone. I will work on this area of communication and also on control. I think it will take some hard work on my part. Thanks for the info and encouragement.