Should I Be Worried Or Not?

[wawpioneer]

I am not sure how to look at your sitch either because it sounds close to mine. Her cell phone bill was direct billed and we do not get a copy of it except on the internet and she is the only one with the passwords. I know she had an EA but she swears up and down that she never touched the guy. He lives over 6 hours away. Hard to swallow that nothing ever happend but she too is eager to get the divorce done and not give us a chance at all. I have a hard time trusting her anymore to say the least and it is hard to believe that no PA happened. I have decided though that all I can really do is take her for her word. For some, the guilt of a PA is a heavy burden to bear and they do not want any of their friends and family to know. This is a strong reason to keep it under wraps. I feel for you and hope for your sake that she has not.

Before the end I plan to approach my WAW in this manner. I will tell her that throughout our whole relationship to my knowledge she has never lied to me when I have ever asked her a direct question and I am believing you now when you say that you have never touched him. I will then ask her again to reaffirm that they never had physical contact and see what she says. I don't know if that is a good strategy but days before the D is final we will have that talk I think. Any thoughts?