So what do you mean by standing still? No House, No girls...
By standing still, I mean let things happen for a bit. Your W has initiated the D, and you need to respond, but you don't need to help it along---it'll go on its own. What I meant was, it can be easy to say, great, let's get it done, and start pushing. So by standing still, I mean don't push.
I don't mean you shouldn't move on finding a house, or that you should avoid women. I think you definitely need a house, and finding one won't change the status of your M. That can go on.
And about other women, I don't have the sense that you've detached from your own W enough to want to start dating around, or have you? I know it feels good. I'm glad you had that time with the home owner, for sure.
I'm rambling a bit. I guess when I say "stand still" I'm thinking more about an internal kind of quiet, a sitting with things and just letting them be. Geeez, yoga, anyone?
