Hey Heim,

Originally Posted By: Heimlich
I like to think I'm not oblivious. Wish I were, that'd make all of this easier to take rather than making the same damn mistake again and again and realizing you're making the same mistake again and again. However, I think I'm getting a lot better.


When exactly are you realizing you're making a mistake? During the mistake? Afterward? Because I hear you saying over and over, it wasn't like that, she didn't take/hear it that way, etc., which doesn't sound like, oh man, I can't believe I did that *again.* I don't have the impression that you're an unusually defensive person, and maybe it's not oblivious, either. What do you call someone who clings to their beliefs despite all evidence to the contrary?

Originally Posted By: Heimlich
Anyway, haven't touched her other than the brief butt squeeze for, eesh, I don't know how long.


Heim? Doesn't matter. Bad call.

Originally Posted By: Heimlich
So, back to that. 100 miles further away, eh. That should put her about 100 miles on the other side of Pluto then, give or take a few yards.


I'd think that someone who wanted his W back would be interested in the direction as well as the distance.

Originally Posted By: Heimlich
As always, standing invite anytime you're in the DC area.


Thanks. It's closer than Pluto.

Originally Posted By: Heimlich
"Daddy, when you sit like that, your stomach looks like Santa Claus."


I love it.

And re W calling to ask you to look something up online, I think that is good. If she were actively avoiding you, she obviously would've found someone else to ask. As usual, note it and move on.

Take care.


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