WAW staying, I'm leaving to give her space..

[jab]

Atlas,

I read your post and I thank you deeply (and dh) for the good advice. You understand my sitch, you know how easy it is to succumb to the urge to snoop. You understand why I feel like there's an A going on (the signs are there), but that may or may not be the case. If you read back in this thread, there are a few things I need to work on (my insecurities, my lack of patience, and listening to what my wife is telling me)

Thank you for reminding me of that, makes me feel a little better. I just love her so much and this is so hard, especially over the holidays.