Get Me On A Smoother Ride....Need Advice #7

[SueS]

Hi-

I got on earlier, but H was lurking and kept asking what I was doing. He has the balls to sit here and send her emails with sappy songs attached and he thinks he can question what I'm doing??????

So, the ring....actually silver. Pissed & hurt. I don't know where it came from, but it's pretty much just what he and I had looked at for him a while back. When I gave him a silver chain & bracelet for his b-day in June, I told him that I would get the ring to match very soon.

One funny thing tonight. H left to take the garbage out. He just grabbed the recycling. It literally takes 1 minute to take it out. When he'd been gone for 10, I got mad. I went to put a new bag in the garbage can and noticed he hadn't taken that down. We live in a condo complex. The door to the garage is right next to our front door. I grabbed the bag of garbage & walked it down to the garage. There stood H, on his phone....looking guilty & caught. I stared at him the whole time, handed the garbage to him & walked away. I was so pissed. But, did that make things any different??? No. He still came up here and sent her emails & sappy songs.

I seriously think things have gotten very serious with them & that things here will be exploding soon. Don't want it that way, but just a feeling.

What kind of man does all that and then fixes and awesome dinner for him and his wife?? Doesn't make sense.

Well, I need to get to bed. H is in the living room, on the couch, which is where I think he'll stay. He's slept there a few nights this week.

Have a good one.

SueS