I sure didn't mean to bring you down, sweetie, but I have seen men graps a straws when they see their WAW's do some small gester that gets their hopes up that things will change and then crash when it doesn't go the way they hoped. I just want you to try to stay positive but realistic.......if that's possible.
Best wishes and hope you have a good weekend.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!