lwb - it was D3's party. I got D5 a Hannah Montana movie so she wouldn't feel left out. It was $20.. no big deal.

One of the other parents got D5 a small gift as well.. same reason.

I think she was mad that she was too stupid to think of it.

Foo.. Man it's tough. It would be so easy and so justified. Unfortunately, the law doesn't care. I'd hate to lose face like that in front of the D's as well.

It's a thin line.. I'm sure others are saying "I can't believe you didn't say or do anything"