I didn't say anything. At first I thought it was a pretty negative thing to say. But then I realized it was nothing at all. Just a little embarrasment.

She also (at the end of the conversation) "small steps". Which is something we always say and is a recipe for success.

We're both very exhausted. Have had a whole lot going on and things to deal with. "Divorcing" some people out of our life that had to go. But things are very good. I can put my arms around her at any time and she responds. She comes to me for a hug. It's all good. All completely different.

Unfortunately she's sick and I've got a bit of poison oak. But maybe that's a good thing, keep this thing slow.

Xue


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