Long and bumpy road

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Wow what a day. I went to my son's wrestling match. Talked with that same friend of mine. Ironically she is OW's ex SIL. She asked how things were going and I said the same. Well she just called me a bit ago....she called OW and bitched her out. told her that she was being inappropriate and OW just said they were friends, blah blah blah....my friend told her that we were trying to work it out and she was getting in the way.

That is when OW said she was hearing a different version of the story from dh. I knew he had to have been feeding her lies. She said that dh told her that he was just around for the baby and helping me etc. He had no feelings for me and that we werent trying to reconcile.

My friend told her that either way, it wasn't a place for her to be. OW felt it was ok.

DH sent a few text messages asking how baby is. I finally got sick of it and said that he lost that privledge when he chose to lie to me. I owe him nothing until after she is born.He mad OW a priority over me. He then got angry and said that I can't push him out of babys life and he will be there for her birth.

I have to run...I have more to tell, but will do it when I get back.