Input, WH and I own business together

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The issues that led her to leave, she said in C'ing that she didn't know what she wanted, who she was, that she had no hobbies or outside interests. When she said this, I thought her problems weren't with me, they were things she had to sort out herself. I realize now that I had emotionally shut down due to me being ignored in favor of her job.

S25 has all the toys, a truck, a 99 cobra and a motorcycle. HAs a collection of about 17 hand guns and rifles. He has a degree in criminal justice and wants to be a police officer, but being a male with no military experience he almost has to have a perfect score on tests. He has qualified for a few depts, but they haven't hired down to his score yet. He is very responsible about drinking and driving, he realizes a DUI would prevent him from getting a job as a PO. He has gotten himself out of shape, but has little time. He works FT about 50 to 55 hrs a week and works PT as loss prevention for a major retail store. They have asked him to take over LP dept, but it would a pay cut.

Weather here call for freezing rain/sleet/rain. Fun driving weather. Going yo have S set up outside decorations tomorrow. Get rid of hospital bed Mon, we'll put up tree Mon night.

Going to S26's house tomorrow night to watch Bengals game. Talked with him this afternoon, he's really angry with his mother. He called her to wish her happy T-Day, she still hasn't called him back. S25 feels same way, he's called several times and never a return call. I guess I'll have to call W to tell her she needs to talk to S's. Last time she blamed her phone wasn't working, but now she has a new phone. So now what will be her excuse!!? She has really lost contact with most of her friends except her best friend. She used to be really close with former girl scout leaders, they used to get together every 2 mos. I hope she starts to emerge from the fog soon. I haven't had any contact with W since T-Day.

Mike