Congratulations! You did a really difficult thing, but I do believe that it's the best decision for you, Linda, your wife and your children. I don't know what will happen in the future, but this was not the right time for that R to blossom. I am sorry for your pain, though.
Faithful H -
I must take issue with this:
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In the grand scheme of eternity, your commitment to stand today will be meaningless if you stop tomorrow or even next year. It will have been a nice little attempt.
I don't want to minimize the pain you went through with your W, but the fact is, your stand did not have to last long. After almost two years of h#ll with my stbx, I had had enough and stopped standing. It's now 5 months later and I have absolutely no regrets. I really don't think it's fair to say that it would be "meaningless" if any of us chooses at any point to stop.
~ Nicola
Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself My thread: Trusting God's Plan
