Hi All,

Had some friends watch the kids last night and i went into dallas with some friends and had a great time. Have not heard from the W since thursday which is fine, its easier to detach that way. I am not wondering what she is doing, since i know she cant be doing all that much without a job and tight on funds. One of my friends last night talked to me about the OM and the A. She said its not real, my W is filling a void right now, but its not going to make her happy in the long run. She asked me if my W did take her meds and wanted to come back in the future what would i do. I told her i cant answer that its too hard to predict how i will feel 3,6,9 months from now. Right now its pleasant no daily arguments no complaining from her, free time with my kiddos and less stress. So to say i am focusing on the positives in all this is an understatement. Hope you all are doing good....


Me 35
W 26
S 3
D 10 months
I have custody
Bomb 11/9/07
W PA 10/07 ended 2/08
Removed W from house 11/16/07
I filed in Nov.
D put on hold
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1268484&page=6&fpart=16