Sadly, it seems quite common that cheating S's have little if any concept of how their actions have been immoral or hurtful at all! I got lines like "I've always been completely honest with you, accept about this A" Wow, how petty of me to overlook all those years of honesty! I should be ashamed of myself I also got "how can you not trust me?" when I told her I wasn't leaving my home until i had an SA in place, I would not take even the slightest chance of losing my girls by leaving without an SA. I think they just can't deal with the reality of what they've done to another person, the person they pledged to love forever etc. It's too much so they act as though it just didn't happen and say stupid things endlessly. hey, we used to have a thread titled "the stupidest thing your S ever said about the A" it was filled with gems! Take care and let these idiodic statements go in one ear and out the other, as hard as it is.
I also got "how can you not trust me?" when I told her I wasn't leaving my home until i had an SA in place, I would not take even the slightest chance of losing my girls by leaving without an SA. I think they just can't deal with the reality of what they've done to another person, the person they pledged to love forever etc. It's too much so they act as though it just didn't happen and say stupid things endlessly. hey, we used to have a thread titled "the stupidest thing your S ever said about the A" it was filled with gems!