Thanks Neph....I thought I'd toot my own horn a little with the "SuperMom" thing! Hope your S is feeling better...good vibes right backatchya! I didn't mind sleeping with S in the bed, but I found I wasn't sleeping as soundly because I'm always worried about him rolling over or me rolling over on him. He slept really well in the carrier again last night. I have naps with him during the day so we get our snuggle time!
I'm not sure if my little 'snap' at H last night made a difference...but he seems to be acting different today. His anger has been subsiding a bit this week as I've mentioned.
This morning he came to pick up D to take her for the day. But unforunately she still has the fever and isn't well(he was going to take her to his Mom's for the day). She told him she didn't want to go. So he hung out here and just let her snuggle up on the couch for the morning in her jammies. He even brought me a coffee. AND he talked a little about his work. That hasn't happened in over a month. AND that is one of my 'small signs' that I said I would be looking for as a change in him. I spoke back to him about it and asked a couple questions but didn't push.
D went down for a nap here instead of going to Grandmas and he's still hanging out here holding our S. I told him if he wants to stay here with D today I'll go out. I think that is still up in the air.
I could have stayed downstairs and watched TV with him, but I made myself a salad and came up to the computer. I'm getting good at this detaching thing!!
It's nice to be around him without the anger at least. I can take this for a while.
Who knows what it all means if anything, but it's certainly better than it has been. "Think Small" right?? J~
