I know what you mean. It seems like if you just go ahead with the D, then you can deal with the hurt and move on. That's why detachment is so important. You have to learn to detach with love. It's one of the hardest things that I've had to deal with personally. I still struggle with it, but as with most things, it gets easier with time.

Me: 29
W: 28
T: 10
M: 7
No kids
2 Dogs and 1 Cat
With Parents: 09/16/07
Apartment: 10/13/07
Back Home: ~2/16/2008

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