Just had a huge fall-out with the wife. It started when she "busted" me snooping her computer. She became very upset with me (rightfully so).
It spun deeper and deeper into the abyss. Turns out that she believes that I have been doing things that I have not been doing. Her boyfriend (actually, ex-boyfriend) has been supplying her with this information. Some of the stuff is pretty unbelievable (for example, she has a chat transcript where I detailed how I would kill our dog using antifreeze because it wouldn't show up in an autopsy. What??? Autopsy on a dog??). She offered to show me the transcript. I told her that I didn't want to see it, and she is free to believe whatever she wants.
It was pretty unbelievable. She said she "wants" to believe me... I think that she does believe me but wants not to. Whatever. Oh, and the kids overheard this "dog and antifreeze" thing, and they started crying. All of them. I then got angry with her for dragging these unseemly people into our lives. The kids crying was enough for me.
Anyway, we can all spend time wondering about why her boyfriend would be feeding her false information. It is of no consequence to me. She said again today that she wants to "move on." I told her to go ahead. Pull the trigger.
I sense that, although she says she has "accepted" the impending divorce, that she is more resigned to it than motivated to move forward because it is what she wants. It's as if it's what's supposed to happen next.
She said her father is coming into town to advise her regarding the divorce. It's not good here at all.
She wants to start negotiating. "Are you going to fight with me?" I told her it depends on what she wants.
