I went from thinking my W was in love with me to D city in one 24 hour period. I am sure that is the same for most here.
Oh man. I can't believe the amount of pain floating around out there.
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I asked her for a document that reflects that and she said she couldnt because the kids would think she doesnt want them???? Funny, but I think actions speak louder than words.
My W's (I'm not caling her STBXW anymore, see post above!) stated reason for leaving is to find that "romantic spark with someone else." I don't see where the boys fit into this.
I asked her for full custody with any visitation she wanted. She refused in a dramatic way. Our MC advised that the "societal pressures" on her probably prevented her from agreeing even if that is what she would like. Her parents, co-workers, friends and peers, etc. would look down on any "woman who gave up custody of her kids."
I put some weight to this since she is rabidly paranoid about what other people think as far as our divorce being caused by her and OM.
I am fortunate in my state that I will probably get 50% physical custody regardless. I hope that as things get more "time consuming" for her, I will have them more, regardless of the decree.
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So about a month ago she commented I guess that you (me) will be married to me longer like you want. Sheesh! I say I will sign an accurate document and she thinks I am stalling. Maybe I am not the one who is stalling
Ssswwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeettttttttt!
Does dragging feet count as baby steps???
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Wait and see what happens.
Check!
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