B50, Your parents sound awesome...what a great source of support for you.

My H has reminded me, that in my most LD days, I did say to him that he should just leave me alone and have an affair. Just shows you what kind of mind set you can fall into. You obviously have a lot of compassion for her...what a difficult situation. I hate the fact that sometimes I just have nothing helpful to say, only to send some positive wishes.