Survived the first holiday of the season. Her parents came up for almost a week, about the best I can say about that was it was uncomfortable. Not that it was a good thing, but her parents laid into her the night before they left and again the morning before they left.

To give you a short version, her parents could see very quickly the 180's I have made in my life and at the same time could see that my wife has had done nothing in changing anything. She also told them that she wasn't sure what she wanted, whether it was to be married or not, and they could see no effort by her when I was home. Now with this coming 3 months after she asked me back it did not go over very well with them.

So the afternoon on the day they left when I came home from work she was crying her eyes out. She complained to me about how her parents treated her, I at this time did not help and spelled it out to her why they were pissed at her and her actions. Now this was last Monday when this all happened. I can honestly say that since I woke up Tuesday, this stranger that I have been living with has reverted into the women that I married. Probably against all DB'ing principles but between our argument a couple weeks ago and now her parents who until last week supported her in her doing whatever she wanted to be happy doing an about face, she is "WAKING UP"

So the last four days have been a pleasurable time together. I have been getting from her, with no prodding from me, a hug, a kiss and an ILY when I get up in the morning, when I come home from work, and when she heads off to bed. The best part is she seems actually happy.

So much for being short lol.

Hey just 5 more days til Sonoma \:\)

M 41
W 33
S8
S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07