Sun - doctor friend of mine [who had a MLC, and also has training in psychology]] told me something very interesting.
When they say they don't find us attractive, it actually means they have been thinking about us and fighting the attraction. My h says that he doesn't want to sleep with me again. My friend says that he would only say that if he had been thinking abot it quite a lot. According to him, men don't tell women they don't find them attractive or desirable if they haven't thought about them a LOT!!! It doesn't just pop out as a comment
I share Snodderley;s concerns about your foot, as well as your h's coninuing poor behaviour. He is clearly much more comfortable having his particular MLC on his own home, rather than moving out.
