With MLC Women - Do they come back????

[DadNotQuitting]

My STBXW and your W DNQ are very much birds of a feather

Now that is scary!!!

about the only thing I haven't had the experience of is the jail time you had and the restraining order

Be thankful for that. And for any of you in California, please realize that it is so easy for a WAW to use this extremely powerful tool against you.

as well as her "liberation" of almost 6 figures of our finances which BTW has been spent in 13 months.

Next Friday, I will be receiving my wife's banking records. I served a subpoena on her bank, and we will hopefully find out where the missing $131,000 went. I know how you feel.......

There are many signs, she is spending a lot more time with her kids

If nothing else, that is very good, so long as it is "quality" time.

I think she is waking up very slowly and beginning to see that all that was gold is actually rust.

Veru prophetic... No surprise though, it seems as though they seek out anyone that isn't us, only to find that it never is what they really think it could be.

She is going to be the mother of an infant at almost 40, her OM is 24 and I think she is starting to see that he is going to run fast and far when she gives birth in a month.

Is there an X-box tournament somewhere?? Nice don't you think? We have young men, real men, serving our country in wartime, younger than this dirtbag and he cannot handle this type of responsibility.

I see her being a single working parent within 6 months. She will probably be declaring bankruptcy soon as she is flat ass broke. Everything has gone very badly for her but in many ways it has gotten much better for me.

OK, so how much does this play into her supposed thought process to reclaim her marriage with you? I've wondered how much the financial aspects have an impact. My W is really feeling this right now too, and I could fix it pretty easily, but have chosen not to do so.

Has she hit the bottom? I don't think she's quite there yet but I am sure she can see it coming up fast.

OK, the old "hit bottom" theory... Does it matter? Will the bottom cause them to look back to "the top"?