Surprised you're still on. I went out with S25 and his friends, they worked with him at a sears store that I serviced the escalators and elevators. We went to a bar, I'm sure he wanted to get me plastered but I didn't. Played a little pool, been about 15 yrs since I last played.
Hard to GAL, I've been tied to the house since my operation, but it was good to get out tonight. Went to a neighborhood bar near S's friends house. He pointed out the single women who were looking for a good man. I told him i'm not interested now, don't want to get even with WI don't get the impression from W she wants to turn it around. I see glimpses of she may be our sitch, but nothing to to make me think she wants to work on us. How I wish she would.
Let your H continue to give you gifts, if he wants you to do something with him and OW, refuse , tell him you can't be the third wheel. His bringing gifts is his way of staying connected to you and possibly to rid himself of some guilt, accept the gifts for a while, let him get closer then tell him you can't be the second woman.
Don't bring up M or R talks unless he brings the subject up first. I know it's hard, if i left it up to my W I don't think she'd ever talk about it. Has H ever brought up talks of R?
I haven't heard from W since T-Day. Keep your head up, I know Ive had days where I've been depressed about my sitch. I just muddle through till someone picks me and my spirits up again. Reading others posts sometimes help. Well got to go .
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
