WAW does not want to try

[wawpioneer]

Thank you both for posting. I think you guys are right. She says that the contact between her and the other man is now very infrequent and barely friend-like (sure). I had been doing everything wrong up until the last couple of weeks. I wonder if I had known about some of these techniques sooner if she would have come around early. She was a mess early on but seems to have gained strength or resolve about her decision to leave. She is pushing for divorce pretty hard and may have already filed papers since a check cleared that was written out to her lawyer. We will see if I get served. We are supposed to talk this weekend or sometime before we have counceling together next Thursday. I am not sure she will go. We will see. She is going to individual counceling though. She has made it clear though that she is not going to work on us but is going to "fix her". I am not sure if this one is going to come around. She has always been pretty stubborn and her stubborn streak is coming out right now. I have had a extremely hard time GAL lately. I did go to my sister's tonight though. It was goog to get out of town for a bit.