H never came back from Iraq

[MichelleLT]

In California it doesn't actually matter whether I sign or not. He wanted me to sign so we didn't have to go to court and it would be finalized in 4 months. Since I'm refusing to sign, he has to pay court costs, go to court, and then from the date of judgment it takes 6 months and 1 day to finalize. It'll just "drag things out" and cost him more money (that he doesn't have since he's spent it all on her). Of course, that's a whole other issue because a lot of the money he spent was community property, which means half mine. Which means he'll end up owning me a couple thousand dollars if I push the money issue in court.

I like the analogy of a first date or a new friend. Although the new friend makes more sense. Lol. I haven't been on a first date in almost 7 years.

I looked at more of the forums. I found some inspiring posts. I'm definitely feeling more positive tonight. Part of it is just the stress of finals I'm sure. My last one is Monday night, so life will be a lot better after that. :-)