woog, thank you, i have calmed since this happened. i wish i had more control over my anger and frustration.i just seemed to reach my limit today. i think it all goes back to when she left town instead of staying over until the next day to be at the birth of our granddaughter.i have no doubt wne she gets home tonight she will tell me will be moving out. on a brighter note daughter and i put up the christmas tree and all the decorations tonight. they look great. but sadly this could be the last time we have christmas in our home. hard to believe . you are right about living in their world. i don't care how much i try and convince her about what she is doing it just falls on deaf ears. she is so unplugged from reality. she can actually justify wanting to go out of town.take a breath, a deep breath craig. i hope and pray i can try to db in this situation. i hope i did cross the line. only time will tell. thanks woog.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023