Well I actually checked DR out from the library today but I guess I was too late. He called me tonight and said he is going to file for divorce and he's made his decision, nothing I can say or do will sway it. He does not want to be married, he does not want to work on things, he likes his freedom and is enjoying his life. Thanks for your responses, but I guess it's time to give up. I don't know what else to say.
M 29/H32 M 7yrs/1 dog Bomb 10/18 M in apt 11/13/ H in the house 1st now