Sun, I am so sorry about your day, and I hope you ended it better with the gingerbread house. I agree with snodderly, he's just so miserable that he has NOTHING nice to say, so he says what he does. You know my H could be nasty to me, too, and he would say hurtful things to me. He once told me he hated me. He looked right at me and said that. Now, my H has been one of those that would later call or stop by and pitifully attempt to take back things he had said, and he later called to tell me he did not hate me, he hated himself. So you see, that is what your H is really thinking too. He's wasting his life away and he knows it. Now he needs someone to blame. How do they look themselves in the mirror? Take care. Hope you are feeling well.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
