B...I have a whole draft folder full of emails entitled "another one I won't send". Most of the time I too just need to get it off my chest.
These boards are great for it too...helps to put it all in perspective.
You're doing great...I love the insights you've come to since you first wrote it. I get the feeling if things keep going the way they are you won't have to have this conversation with her anyway! J~
