This is too funny. Agree with Dom / agree with cemar... LOL I don't know... I'm with sandi. I don't feel any of it either!
Sandi, IMO, it sounds like he could care less about sex. Sounds more like he wants someone around so he's not alone, but not a whole lot more. I'm confused as to why it's sooo important for you to show him how much you want to make him happy sexually, when he's the one that cut off the physical R. i dunno, just seems backwards.
Dom, yes on the lubricant question. we've never had to before and he doesn't like that. he knows we only need it cause I'm not horny (which he does seem to want, hehe) . I didn't mean to ask a question. I was saying that there are other things I do for him than actual intercourse, but he always wants sex in the end. What am I thinking while we are being intimate, that I want to make him happy. Not "hurry get it over with", but "what can I do to make him happy"... afterwards, i feel kinda sick to my stomach and am glad that it's over. I know that I'm doing it to see him happy, but i can't seem to kick those feelings.
It's so funny cause people always say that women are hard to understand, but If I ever understand what a man really wants and needs, it'll be a miracle!!
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
