HELP! Can't take the way H talks to me!!

[not an ex yet]

I am definitely aware that I had a huge role in the downfall of our marriage! I took ALOT of things for granted! I didn't realize it, until he stopped doing things.

Co-dependent??? Hmmmmm. I honestly do not see myself that way. I have lived on my own, always been responsible for our finances, bill paying, grocery shopping, cleaning etc... I have travelled alone, bought vehicles alone...I think I can take care of myself pretty well. I know these aren't huge things (I am thinking of a friend of mine, who is scared to death to do some of these things). He has done construction since he was a child, so he can build, fix and design just about anything. I got used to that, and probably relied on him too much to take care of those kinds of things. He was a better cook than I am, so I probably relied on him too much to cook. I can understand why he would say that b/c of the way I acted sometimes, but I know that I can take care of myself.