Hummmm.... if planning something seems like a chore, why not just come up with something simple and fun? Why not just try to make it a fun day where you can spend it together. Something stress-free, where you can both just be good friends (no "relationship talk" although discussing general memories from the past might be nice...). Even a simple dinner out and a couple of chocolate martinis...


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.