Michael,

OMG.. im so so sorry for you. did I get that right.. he's had sex with other MEN?? .but he sounds like a big time loser... Sick sick sick and your W must be in la la land to except all of this.. especially taking a sexual risk.. there are so many diseases out there.. She is really clouded.

I don't know how you found out about this encounter, but if I were you, you really should think about what this is going to do to you and how will you be able to go on after this. Are you talking to a C?

My god she has children to consider. I don't know what to say, but im sorry and we all are here for you.

(((hugs)))

tal

Last edited by tiredandlost; 11/30/07 11:41 PM.

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.