Hey, sweetie, I just read some of your sitch and I understand where you are coming from in some ways. I had 3 boys in 7 yrs and found myself not real *happy* w/ myself, my M or my H all the time and especially did not want sex AT ALL. However, then let's go to the other side of the coin -- a year ago in January *I* got the D bomb from H and I was devastated. My eyes were opened to the fact that I had truly been taking him for granted, not showing him how much I loved him (or did I even realize up to that point how much I still loved him?), how sexy I still thought he was, etc. I didn't realize how unhappy I was making him. Now I was on the verge of losing him and a lot of it was my own doing.

Moral of my story being -- be careful. I surely hope you don't end up pushing your H completely away and then regret it later.

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 11/30/07 10:31 PM.
Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10