I've been reading all this because I feel like it's advice I can use as well...
Hi Sandi, Sounds like your mood is improving a little and you've been on here more often, so that is good.
Dom R (not trying to highjack this, but...) for me (possibly for other women) if I'm not horny/aroused/in the mood etc. sex can hurt. There are things I can do for him other than sex because although I'd prefer not to for me, I do want him to be happy, but actually having sex can be uncomfortable and painful. He can tell... my H has a way of making me feel guilty for not wanting him or being attracted to him, like I just decided to be like that one day or something. I totally understand the meatloaf analogy, but we get together and although I'm giving it everything I've got, he can tell... any advice/opinion/ideas on how to deal with that?
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
