I could make the same arguments with xh. ;\) Obviously, it doesn't work.

So...what do you think she's getting out of these "online boyfriends"?

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She always complains that I "dont respect her, as an intelligent, rational person".


She wants you to listen. Just...listen. No arguing back.

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she usually metaphorically sticks her fingers in her ears, to my reply of, "you have a great mind; you just choose to deliberately not apply it sometimes". (emphasis mine)


Sounds like, to me, you are telling her that you don't respect her thoughts and feelings.

Azhira

my confusion