I'm going to be the best friend to her that I can be and a friend wouldn't send this type of letter.
This held my interest because when I started being a friend to my H, treating him like I would treat a roommate/friend, the db'ing became much easier. Don't know why, but maybe it helped remove the emotions that way. And it always helped me think to, now would I do this for/to someone who is a friend?
You have some really good insights about yourself, and I can see that you are a centered person. keep up the good work you are doing on you.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.