10/4 buddy. We have already had that conversation and she had said to me that she knows that I have good intentions but that I need to be very clear in all communication rather than cloudy (her words not mine) and that being up front will save the back end grief.

I agreed, of course, and shut my trap.

Also got a call from her girlfriend today who asked how I was doing. She asked me if I was confused, which I said yes and she said that she was too. She thinks that W not following words with similar actions. i.e. she is still preaching D but then her actions towards me are not in line. She told me she is not sure if we will be ok from this or not, but that she wanted to tell me that W is telling her that she has seen massive changes in me in the last 6 weeks.

So I guess I had to have the affirmation in a round about way, but I got it nonetheless.....

Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years
DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship

S7
S4

M: 7yrs
Bomb: 10/19
Seperated: 10/24

The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce