Being loved, not being sexually desired, is her motive".

I think this is ridiculous. Her motive is to have children. You can twist, subjugate, suppress, quash, but thats her motive. period. That often happens in the presence of desire, despite all logical contradictions.
Maybe if he said being loved is her desire, and being sexually desired is her need.....

however, using my big sis, mojo as an example, she did want to be loved for her pilgram soul when in a LTR. She really isnt so concerned with that in her current dalliances.


I dont like how he writes about women from just those fragments. Its appears as if he is giving them princess passes. Like they are not cognizant human being's, responsible for their actions.

None of these necessarily have any connection to his qualities as a person-the thing that most women believe is the major priority."

Beliefs are irrelevant. Words uttered are irrelevant. Actions are truth.

A man is a success object, who is attractive to the extent that he can be a rescuer, a protector, and a provider.

I agree with the first part, but not the desciptors. Those are objectifying descriptors/attributes, possibly envy inducing, but not desire inducing attributes.


Men who are sexually succesful are not rescuers/providers.

Last edited by blackfoot; 11/30/07 09:14 PM.