Luv, I'm sorry, but it would be better if he came home when "he was ready" You don't want to put yourself or your child through him coming home and then moving out because he wasn't ready. Unfortuntely, these affairs seem to take a while to run their course. Is it right? No, but if you are in it for the long haul you have to have patience. I understand your pain totally. I've been on this rollercoaster ride for over a year. Only we can decide how long we can take it. This has to be your decision.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon