This might be okay for a while, but don't do it always. Get yourself together and then let her see all of your positive changes. Look good, smell good, and be in great mood when you pick up daughter. If you can pull this off now, I would pick D up yourself, if not take a little time to get yourself together.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon