HELP! Can't take the way H talks to me!!

[not an ex yet]

Jack,
Yes, your advice makes perfect sense and it is exactly what I needed!! Thank you for being straight with me, I think I have been waiting for a response like that all along.

You are absolutely right...even if it is legit, I know he sees my requests for help with the kids as manipulative. He has even admitted that.

Also, about not reaching out to him to fix things: that was one of his criticisms when he left, that I was too co-dependent. He thinks I am not capable of doing things on my own. I know that is not true, but I need to show him that, not tell him.

Thank you so much, you have no idea how much you just helped me.

So if I may ask, what is your sitch? Do you have a thread out here? I have noticed you have given many people here alot of great advice, but I haven't run across anything explaining where it comes from.