Yes - it says that we are reposnsible for our debts as of the S date. And I would take her back broke and broken.
She does not work but has been looking for a few months. I think she sabotaged at least one of her interviews. I believe that the job search has been kinda half-hearted at times when she thinks about a future with me, and more aggressove when she does not. Of course employers don't always line up to meet mood swings ofg applicants.
I think we could afford it if she reduced the flexible dollar portion of the budget. A few weeks ago she was saying hopw she had not been working out for a long time (thins was her daily routine when all of this started)because she didn't have the time. Now she says she is going to drop the club membership because of the expense. Not blaming me so much, but I did have to hear it.
I'm afraid of getting weak and paying off our debts because I want to look like the hero...