Nikki. what you said about H doing all those things on Valentines... He DID mean that. What he's said during your sitch about not ever being in love or whatever crazy thing he's said is all B.S. So don't believe that all those things were just him pretending... that's just silly... unless he's some psycho guy.
OT gave you some great pointers. I especially like how she said
"But if he asks for it, try to make him feel special in the way that he tried to make you feel special, but in a non-needy, non-let's-call-in-the-drama way. If you go out to a bar, do something silly like sneak to the bar and get a bunch of fruit and an umbrella for his drink. Don't order him the drink from your honeymoon. If you go shopping, point out the race car cuff links. Don't point out the thing that reminds you of your honeymoon. etc..."
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
