I wanna have a tough love moment

[cagzmom]

My H and I too have a legal paper document notorized and all that jazz...but anyway doesn't matter. When HE left (note the difference here...) HE said he would take care and do what was his obligation..needless to say we are going to mediation. My point?

Look at what you SIGNED....financially ALONE....in my state once you signed, once you are legally seperated any debt he incures is his deal not mine. InI dont know your deal there ..but that is how it works in NC.

Look at the FINANCIALS -- not the relationship...you may end up back together BROKE ...will u still accept her back? Do you see what I mean? I WOULD ACCEPT my H back broke and BROKEN...=) BUT in the meantime I have to LIVE as though we are not one (financially.)

So - look at what you signed. Is it reasonable? Can you afford whta you said you could do?

Does she work? She could help financially- she LEFT you remember?