I'm going to mull over the vibe thing pm mentions. Offhand I'd say the vibe I get from you is stubborn oblivion---the refusal to recognize your slips as anything but (which, to me, they are). The IC could really help there---dig that stuff up and expose it to daylight, see what shakes loose.
I also have to tell you, when I read your description of grabbing your W's butt I absolutely cringed. From this woman's point of view, that was a gross violation---you have no claim to that body anymore. If it had been me, the elbow to the ribs reflex might have kicked in. I know you absolutely didn't mean anything by it (consciously), but hear what I'm telling you: that was utterly inappropriate and disrespectful, and your W moved about 100 miles away from you in her head. Ick.
GD: Ha! Funny catch about the new home for the TV. Heim, I might join you sometime to take in the glory of high-def something.
((((Heim)))), more about the vibe thing as my brain thaws.
