well here's a surprise. I was gone this morning and returned to the house and my w was there. she had returned 1 day early from being overseas. we were going to pick her up as a family at the airport tomorrow morning. but..no emal or anything that she was coming home. she said she didn't have time to do it...but..she had plenty of time to email her sister that she was coming and to pick her up. this is a bummer to me bcause it really means me and the kids, or specifically me are not on her mind. I was also bummed to not get a hug when I aw her. she only emailed a couple times while she as gone. but, good news was she totally nuded up in front of me to get in the shower. I was surprised about that and much appreciated. maybe that's a baby step, but I doubt it.
she had wanted to know where I was, and who decorated the house(i got out xmas decorations). I told her I was leaving and would see you later. she wanted to know where I was going and I told her to lunch with friends. I also told her that me and the kids were going to a movie tonight and she was welcome to come. said she would probably be sleeping.
anyway...my thoughts about all this is I need to start pulling back a lot more, because she seems to have really done that.
