While she may act sexually responsive and aroused, hers is a fragile interest in sex that can easily be made a low priority. Being loved, not being sexually desired, is her motive
Any person in a SSM may do this, not just women. Both men and women Want to be loved. There is love between my H and I much more so than there is sexual desire. It drives me nutty at times but I stay just the same. I would Not stay if I felt unloved.
I don't think you would find one person on this board that would say they would rather be sexually desired than loved. And that includes those with the highest sex drives.
