I think the crux of this dynamic is: Was your offer of "sex to make him happy" ever phrased in such a way to convey the message "The princess will stoop to fill your silly little needs, but you'd better be grateful."??? Only you can answer that.

Nothing creates resentment faster in a relationship than the imbalance created by feeling like you're being thrown a bone to shut you up.

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