One other thought about backing off, your W knows you think the D is wrong. Telling her isn't doing any good.
My W once told me that any R talk was like "fingernails on a blackboard." That's generally kept me from popping off as frequently as I had been before she said that.
No R talk is that. No R talk.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
